Lately, I have this urge to simplify my life and lessen the burden of decisions that bombard me every day. As soon as we open our eyes we need to start making decisions. Choose what to wear in the morning, what food to eat during the day, and which route to choose to work and on and on we face those decisions daily.
We then have to pay for all the different bills we have for a hundred different services that we hardly use. Then there are the ten credit cards we have and three bank accounts we own.
Sometimes, it gets a bit too much esp. in this day and age where information hits us fast bringing with it a vast array of options. These choices quickly overwhelm us becoming burdens rather than luxuries.We start stressing over making decisions, and our shoulders tense up and anxiety follows soon after.
Every decision we make takes so much energy out of us, no matter how small that decision is. As days, months and years pass, all these small decisions add up and somehow drain our energy resources-lessening the power within us.
If we listen closely to our hearts, there is an inherent urge in us to simplify our lives. Fewer decisions mean less energy spent. And so instead of more, we should choose less. But this does not mean having less but paradoxically more because we would be able to focus, engage and enjoy those fewer things much more.
The more things we buy to improve our mood, and then the quicker we get bored with them and the deeper we fall into the abyss of nothingness.
And the more we get rid of anything that’s unnecessary, and then the better we feel. As all that extra becomes clutter, that is wasteful, and that stands in the way of our inner peace and happiness. And by removing the unnecessary, we make room for what is essential, and give ourselves more focus.
What is essential for most of us differs considerably and as such simplifying our lives is something that is personal and very much subjective.
I still don’t know all the parts of my life that needs simplifying or how to do so without affecting people who rely on me but I feel this whisper from my heart and this tug on my soul that I need to simplify to be to able enjoy the rest of my life.
Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication-Leonardo Da Vinci
I presume the main areas to look at would be:
My dream is to have only one account with one debit card that shows me every month what comes in and what goes out.And all I want is that the in column be a bit more than the out so that I can live peacefully and comfortable enjoying the sights and sounds of our world
I suspect I’m tiring of having clothes that I don’t use, books that I’m not planning to read, and furniture that block my path. And that luxury car that stereotypes me rather than the one that serves me. The more I walk,city and weather permitting, the more I feel closer to my soul.
I see myself surrounded by more green than concrete and more outdoor space than indoor space. I would rather listen to the wind and the birds than the air conditioning and the television.
#What I do during the day
I see myself leading a simple life where I wake up fresh when the sun sets and start my day with movement(running/yoga) and end it with reading and sleeping early. And in between I would write/blog/speak, socialize with friends and family and drink some espresso.
I would also spend a lot of time alone and in a state of wonder about nature and regularly satisfy my curiosity about life.
I would gladly leave my corporate life behind for all of that simplicity.
I would find a way to use technology; specifically instant messaging, social media and the internet rather that letting it run/ruin my life.What if I could set only an hour or two per day for it?
Is being busier for the sake of being busy something that serves us in our lives.
Isn’t small always more beautiful and within our grasp, always allowing us to focus more and have more meaning in our lives.
The true journey is the inward one and the more we remove the clutter and noise that surrounds us then the more we can truly allow our souls to lead the way to greatness.